Wednesday, September 02, 2009, 9/02/2009 01:13:00 PM
First week of holiday isn't that good, neither isit that bad.... Whoo!!! After the last post, I am offically having my first week of holiday.. It's been a tiring week for me.. Sllleeeeeeeppppppppppyyyyyyyyyyy!! Anyways, things happen unexpectedly.. whether it is good or bad, i guess, we'll have to learn from those events and really brace ourselves up and walk again.. staying in the same situation is never the best thing... Things that happened this week make me reflect alot of things.. dramatic events that i never thought will happen to people around me..cause i thought those things will happen in those typical Hong Kong dramas.. until now, i still find them super exaggerating.. What should i say regarding the things that happened and had happened?? Family issues are just so simple yet complicated.. hahas.. simple and common issues, yet involving close ones and relationships between one another.. and that's really kinda sad i guess.. it used to be so perfect back then, yet it seems like a dream, a memory now.. cause it will never go back to the same old times again.. Another thing i realised is.. again, relationships. Cherish the people around you, love them with all your heart. Don't regret only when the person is not with you anymore - whether he/she is still alive anot. Start loving the people around, whether the person is naggy, ,rude, unkind, frowning all the time and stuff. Love them the way they are, treat them the way you want them to treat you, even if they don't, keep loving. Time is running out every single moment, you never know when you, or the person you love, will be gone the next day, or even the next moment. Hmm.. relationship is such a simple yet, fragile thingy. Simple because all you do, is to love, care and give. Fragile cause, a simple thing like speaking something, can totally kill the relationship. hahaas... act the way you say it. say the things to encourage. speak in a nicer tone. give a short message that only needs less than a minute. look at the person talking to you for a few seconds even though you are busy. all these already can touch someone's heart. Don't wait until there is lesser time together, or even when the person is gone. Let the love continues.... Cherish and love.. (: Shihui jiayou! love you! <3 iDestinee. |